Sunday, December 7, 2008

Some Tips To Note While New Dating Relationships

When getting a new relationship, many women (and men as well) incline to look across some conducts in their new partner that do not foretell well for the next. Then, down the route, comes the exclamation ‘If I had only known...’. As a Psychotherapist who has turned with mostly women and a few humans in the field of Home Wildness, during advising sittings we can always trace back rough and also wild character traits to the very beginning of the relationship.

Here are some Conduct to watch out for in a new better half.

1. He takes decisions about where to go with sloppy or no input from you.
2. He belittles your view when the two of you are alone and may call you names.
3. He makes disparaging mentions about you in front of others and may talk about you as if you were not on that point.
4. He may be rough during love-making and make you pursue in acts you do not like.
5. He does not want to spend time with your supporters or family and insists you socialise with his masses.
6. He will not recognise your spheres of expertness and may put down what you do in the workplace - brush off any of your accomplishments.
7. He may openly flirt with other women and then impeach you of being jealous when you object.
8. He gets wild and loses his mood over trivialities. Stays angry for a long time and attempts to blame all arguing on you.
9. May hit walls when provoked.
10. One of the main factors is that he comes on very big in the starting of your family relationship - brushes you off your feet - and wants an individual relationship too quickly. Many women look flattered at the intensity of the man’s looking need for an present link and consequently miss the inappropriateness of it.This should not be confused with ‘love at first sight’ where one or both parties feel an existing link - without any of the aforementioned behaviors.

There are many other factors that could be numbered - but if the man in your life begins displaying the above qualities - see it will not get better, only bigger. He will likely be unintentional to talk over his emotions openly and feel that women are the miserable sex.

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